Sexy Women With Dresses Pulled Up Showing Off Their Wares

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I'm asking for I don't understand why any girl with a boyfriend would make an effort to wear revealing clothing... From what I gather, the only purpose fulfilled by wearing low cut tops and short shorts 24/7 is to be viewed sexually by men - which surely isn't necessary when you're already in a relationship. So, guys, would you mind if your girlfriend regularly showed off her assets? Does it depend on whether or not you're in her company when she does?

(I've tried my utmost to not come across as judgemental/preachy - sorry if I've offended anyone. Maybe I should just learn to lighten up a little. )

I'm obviously a girl but wanted to reply anyways; for me I don't dress as such for a man I dress to feel good about myself but if I had a boyfriend and dressed (nicely) provocatively and maybe got some attention as long as I'm not flirting and acting as though I wasn't in a relationship I don't see the harm. Surely if guys were checking your girl out and you knew she was going home with you wouldn't it be an ego boost? It's how she behaves which may cause issues I think!

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If my girlfriend isn't wearing something revealing enough I tell her to change .. In a way I want guys to stare, makes me feel good, as I have her and other guys don't !

I don't like it when she dresses revealingly. I often ask her to wear mittens or at least a pair of gloves, but sometimes she'll go out completely in the nude. It's embarrassing.

Yeah it probably would bother me a bit. I wouldn't particularly like the idea of load of men looking at my girlfriend like she's a piece of meat, and I don't like the idea of being with a woman who needs to look "sexy" all the time in order to feel comfortable in her own skin. To some extent a few men are going to see women in that way anyway but if you put it all on show, really you're just putting yourself in a position to have it happen more, let's face it - and that's got to be, and really should be, annoying for both members of the relationship.

(Original post by Former)
(I've tried my utmost to not come across as judgemental/preachy - sorry if I've offended anyone. Maybe I should just learn to lighten up a little. )

Or maybe they should.

I'd want my gf to wear revealing clothing as I can always look at her instead of other girls

Besides the fact that you know you're with a hot girl & you beat other guys to getting with her makes you feel great.

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I'd be cool if we all went about naked so...

Yeah. IDGAF.

I like wearing low cut tops or short shorts sometimes, they make me feel good about myself. I was once in a relationship where my boyfriend controlled what I wore- never again will I let a partner dictate what I can and can't wear, unless, obviously, I am showing off something that I really shouldn't be showing off.

EDIT: I feel I should stress that my clothes are not ridiculously revealing, I'm just not going round in high necked jumpers and ankle length skirts. I will NEVER wear those short shorts that show off the bottom of people's bums- I mean why???

I think girls wear revealing clothing to feel good about themselves as well as just attracting men. And I wouldn't mind what my girlfriend wore (if I had one) so long as she felt comfortable and confident. I'd just sit back and admire the view with the rest of the pervs.

If he has the body for it

At the end of the day I know I will be getting a lot more than the onlookers and gawkers, so it wouldn't bother me.

I dont really think it should be down to the boyfriend to decide what his girlfriend can or cannot wear obviously as long as its not inappropriate in any way.

I have a boyfriend and I wear short shorts, short dresses, short skirts etc... It's not so that other guys look at me, it's because that's what I like wearing. And therefore, I feel more confident about myself.

Edit: OP, you make it sound like any girl in a relationship should cover up... neck to ankles... if that's what you normally wear then fine but if you normally wear "revealing" clothes why should you change just because you're in a relationship

I dont influence my girlfriends decision on how she dresses, she's an adult and can make that decision. She's mine and i've got no reason to worry how she dresses.

(Original post by syrettd)
I like wearing low cut tops or short shorts sometimes, they make me feel good about myself. I was once in a relationship where my boyfriend controlled what I wore- never again will I let a partner dictate what I can and can't wear, unless, obviously, I am showing off something that I really shouldn't be showing off.

Fair enough, but I don't get why it makes you feel good?

OP some of my girl-friends often say that the dressing up is the most fun part of the night, they enjoy getting dressed up and say it's fun , the cynical part of me thinks deep down they do it for opposite sex attention. I find that guys are more likely to admit that they are dressed up to appeal to females than girls admitting the opposite...

Depends, what if she discusses her outfit with you first? I think that'd be cool.

But if she is out on her own then definitely bothered by it. Why does she need to get attention on her own?

(Original post by Former)
I'm asking for I don't understand why any girl with a boyfriend would make an effort to wear revealing clothing...

I think that when men feel secure in the relationship, they feel the need to show off their girlfriends. They enjoy the idea of friends being jealous, and are happy to find their partner as sexually dressed as when they met them (Because thats what they were attracted to after all).

A question for you OP, when you're single do you dress like that? In my experiences relationship status rarely changes dress sense.

Anyway, if the girl feels more confident dressed in that way it's up to her. Men shouldn't be the controlling factor in what girls wear, it's up to them.

Go into a shop and see how many tops you can find that are nice, non-frumpy, don't hang off your boobs and make you look fat and adequately cover D cup breasts without any cleavage. I don't dress excessively revealingly but I wear the same clothes in a relationship as I do when I'm single, and that happens to include a few low cut tops and short skirts.

I'm going to be honest, it's nice getting confirmation by way of looks that I'm still attractive to other guys. You can ask why I'd want that when I have a boyfriend, but I wouldn't be able to tell you. It's just like that.

That said, it's also nice knowing I can look as messy or as casual as I want and not have to mentally kick myself when a hot guy shows up.

(Original post by Former)
I'm asking for I don't understand why any girl with a boyfriend would make an effort to wear revealing clothing... From what I gather, the only purpose fulfilled by wearing low cut tops and short shorts 24/7 is to be viewed sexually by men - which surely isn't necessary when you're already in a relationship. So, guys, would you mind if your girlfriend regularly showed off her assets? Does it depend on whether or not you're in her company when she does?

(I've tried my utmost to not come across as judgemental/preachy - sorry if I've offended anyone. Maybe I should just learn to lighten up a little. )

Refreshing to see a girl post this. Absolutely true. My gf dresses in a modest fashion and she understands how important it is not to look like an attention seeking ***** or be reduced to an object. She is much more than that and should portray herself as such.

If we go out together clubbing in a random city, she does sometimes dress cheaply but it's because I am there, also it's a turn on for us Even then, I get uncomfortable but turned on so I usually suggest she doesn't do this. Never in a city where we know people. I wouldn't want them to see her like that.

People generally feel more confident in things where they can look in the mirror and consider themself attractive. So I guess it depends what it is you think makes you look attractive.

For example for a girl do you wear a low cut top or put mascara on, does a guy wear tight t-shirts or is it his hair he focuses on.

I think it depends what a person thinks of when they think about attractiveness. What they think people look for or what they look for in a person...or what they're most complimented on, if their friends go on about how lovely their eyelashes are....you get the idea (I'm now going to have to try to remember where I was going with this....)

So then the difference between the two, your partner wearing that make them feel confident and your partner wearing clothes they think will attract other people, is indistinguishable really. The difference between the two is the motivation, if a guy wears a tight top because he wants girls to admire his body or if he wears it because when he sees himself in the mirrior he feels confident enough that he isn't going to be feeling self conscious. Same with girls, do they want guys staring down their tops or do they just want to look in the mirror and be happy with how they look?

In the end if you feel your girlfriend is trying to get guys to look down her top you're either right and if you have a problem with it you shouldn't be with that type of girl or you're wrong and she's probably very self conscious.
If you know your partner well enough you'll know the difference, if you don't know them well enough....why are you with them?

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